…and he/she will arrive some time in June next year, insyaAllah! 🙂 #babynumber3
(p/s: I’m in my final week of first trimester, Alhamdulillah, and I cannot wait to enter second trimester. Nausea, please be gone)
A few people had been asking me, “So when’s the 3rd one?”.
I wanted to reply… I just had my baby! And then I realized my baby is not so baby anymore. She’s going to be 3 this year!
Am I ready for a third one?
Well, honestly… no. Not now. Maybe I will be ready to get pregnant in 6-12 months from now (or maybe more), kalau diizinkan Tuhan. But for now, I’m just physically not ready. I’m overweight (trust me on this), I’m not fit and I’m always so tired. We all know that it’s best to get pregnant when you are fit and healthy so that is why I don’t want to get pregnant yet. I need to lose weight and get fit first!
Experts recommend women to start preparing for pregnancy as early as possible before trying to conceive. This includes lifestyle, nutrition, fitness, medication, emotional, environment and financial. It’s important to plan your pregnancy ahead to ensure a healthy pregnancy. A baby’s organs begin to form in the first few weeks of pregnancy and sufficient folate is critical for fetal development especially in the first 27 days of pregnancy – that’s before you even know you are pregnant!
Folate or Folic Acid, helps a baby’s neural tube, which is the part of the embryo that becomes the brain and spinal cord, to develop properly. This is a critical phase of development, so having sufficient level of folate as early as possible is important to prevent birth defects.
Women who are planning to get pregnant are required to take 400mcg of folic acid a day and Anmum Materna provides all of that when you drink 2 glasses a day, in addition to folate intake from a varied diet. Anmum Materna is the only high folic acid milk powder that is clinically tested. It’s no wonder why Anmum Materna is the pioneer and the number 1 brand of maternal milk in the market. Besides that, it also contains important nutrients such as calcium, iron and zinc, all of which are essential for pregnancy. Don’t wait until you’re pregnant to drink it; start drinking Anmum Materna if you’re ready to get pregnant!
Anyway. Here’s a game to find out how to be physically ready for pregnancy: www.gettingpregnant.com.my.
Some of the questions are easy peasy, like this one…
Some needs revision on Biology subject. Hee 😛
Answer the questions correctly in the shortest time and you could win exciting honeymoon holidays and prizes!
You could also request for a sample product by clicking on ‘The Easy Answer’ tab.
For more information on planning for pregnancy, visit www.anmum.com.my. Or if you have a burning question about pregnancy or anything related to it, you can call Anmum Care Malaysia to speak to their nutritionists at 1800-88-3122 (weekdays from 8.30am – 5.30pm).
….and knowing that you’re carrying a new life inside of you!
I think it’s important to have a happy pregnancy. I’ve read here that there’s a correlation between a mother’s emotional life while pregnant and the later personality of her child (my mom also said the same thing). Mothers who have less anxious pregnancies, whose babies were wanted and loved tend to have emotionally healthy children. Mothers who resented being pregnant and felt no attachment to their babies are more likely to have children with emotional problems. So it’s important to bond with your baby from the very beginning – right from inside the womb.
Talk to your baby (I didn’t do this tho, because it felt weird, like I’m talking to myself), read to your baby (now this, I did), recite Quran, play soothing music and Quran recitation, and ask your husband to talk to your baby too. Sometimes babies respond by kicking and moving around. Such a precious moment!
Eating healthy food is also another way to bond because you’re sharing food with your baby! The nutrients will be absorbed and passed on to your baby to support her healthy growth so make sure you eat right and take your vitamins and supplements. But if you have a poor digestion, you may not be absorbing all the nutrients that your baby needs.
The New Anmum Materna with Probio DR10 and Prebiotic helps to support a good digestive system for better nutrients absorption. Probio DR10 is a type of probiotic originated from yogurt and they are the good bacterias that provide us with digestive system benefits.
Prebiotic, on the other hand, is “food” for Probiotics, which supports their growth. Prebiotic, like Inulin in Anmum Materna is originated from plant, which is also a source of dietary fibre. 2 glasses of Anmum Materna is loaded with 100% folate, gangliosides + DHA, calcium and iron to support your baby’s development and your well being.
Not only Anmum Materna is good for pregnant women, it’s also suitable for women who are planning to get pregnant. You only need 2 glasses of Anmum Materna a day to get the important nutrients to prepare your body for pregnancy.
We’re not planning to have another baby just yet, but I was surprised when somebody told me that a woman’s diet can determine the gender of her baby.
Did you know that? There’s actually a girly and boyish food! I was told that red meat = boy, fish = girl.
No wonder I have two girls! Fish has always been my favorite.
Yes, men are the ones who produce the gender-determining sperms (X and Y chromosomes) but we women are somehow responsible to create a “hospitable” environment for the chromosomes to thrive. According to my readings, a woman’s diet determines her vaginal pH and acidity levels. A high vaginal pH level enables you to conceive a baby girl, while a low vaginal pH level enables you to conceive a baby boy (you can read more here). So if you want a baby girl, eat acidic food. If you want a baby boy, eat alcaline-rich food.
Acidic, high in calcium and magnesium. Low in sodium, potassium and caffeine.
Milk, cream, yogurt, cheese, ice-cream
Green leafy veggies, fish
Beans, pasta, rice.
Alcaline, high in potassium and sodium. I also read that a high calorie diet is a must to conceive a baby boy.
Red meats, potatoes, bananas, asparagus, broccoli, nuts, mushrooms, salty food like potato chips, salty peanuts, etc.
I don’t know how accurate is this, but I remember eating a lot of fish, pasta, green leafy veggies and dairy products for the past few years. I don’t like coffee and I rarely eat meat and steak. Those are all girly food! What about you mommies? Do you remember what food you ate the most when you were conceiving? Is the “outcome” the same as this theory?
Now that I already have 2 girls, I would like to have a boy next (whenever that is). I need to eat more meat! I need to eat boyish food…. Perhaps something like this.
It may not be 100% accurate, but it doesn’t hurt to try!
My husband and I are planning for a third one when Raina is at least 2 years old. Or 3. Which means, another 1-2 years! Hopefully I’ll be more prepared and experienced by that time. And when that time comes and I’m ready to get pregnant, I’m going to start taking necessary supplements and drink maternal milk to get my body ready for pregnancy.